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No Kidding!



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No kidding… it was a dark, stormy night, raining like cats and dogs. As was the custom, I had accompanied my father to town after a day of work in the field. It was a weekly pilgrimage to the altar of commercialism when we would sell our week’s work, a can of cream, and Dad would sit at Albert Eshe’s service station and tell the same stories and jokes told every week in an untold multitude of tiny prairie towns. I would seek out my friends, who were the product of the same rural existence, and we would cavort.  This night was wet and windy, filled with the excitement of climatic pyrotechnics and the thrill of intrigue, which was not an abundant commodity on the prairie. We ran to escape the torrent and ducked into the doorway of Gordy’s Tavern. Giggles and titters of youth were soon extinguished by a sinister unseen voice from the darkness, “What do you boys think you’re doing here?”


It turned out that wasn’t the last time I would be asked the question. The question "What are you doing here?" can have several interpretations depending on the context. It could be interpreted as a rhetorical question, indicating surprise or skepticism at someone's presence in a particular location. Alternatively, it could be a more direct question, asking for an explanation of someone's purpose or objective in a specific situation or setting. The question can be profoundly personal and have many meanings depending on the individual's circumstances. It can be an existential question about one's purpose and meaning in life or a more practical question about one's career, relationships, or other areas of life.


In this writing, however, it is a question we ask ourselves, “who am I and what am I doing here?” It is a common question people ask themselves when they feel lost or unsure of their purpose. It's a deep and philosophical inquiry that can lead to a better understanding of one's identity and place in the world. Answering this question involves a journey of self-discovery, reflection, and introspection. It requires exploring one's values, beliefs, passions, and goals. By doing so, individuals can understand who they are, what they stand for, and how they want to contribute to society. Ultimately, the answer to this question is unique to each person and can evolve throughout life.


If you are feeling lost or unsure about your direction in life, it may be helpful to take some time to reflect on your values, passions, and goals. What do you care about? What brings you joy and fulfillment? What kind of impact do you want to make in the world? You may gain a clearer sense of purpose and direction by answering these questions. It may also be helpful to seek support from trusted friends, family members, or professionals. Talking through your feelings and concerns with others can help you gain perspective and identify concrete steps you can take to move forward.


The question’s answer can also be an opportunity for growth and self-discovery. By reflecting and seeking support, you may find greater clarity and fulfillment in your life. No Kidding!




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